Truths Behind Sibling Bonds

A bond as important as that of a husband and wife, is the bond between siblings. Lee Dong-Wook I was in the middle of congratulating my sister on the new chapter she’s about to enter into. And I began thinking of our relationship and how wonderful it is and my mind went into overload onContinue

Loving yourself selfishly

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone, I hope everyone has had a lovely day today and if not I hope and pray that it gets better. I’m sure I’m not the only person on this earth that’s single on Valentine’s Day, but how many can actually say that they’re okay with that status? I am but that’sContinue

Message🚨: Relationships/friendships require more than 60/40

All friendships and relationships start off different but I believe they all require the same thing to last, which is equality and balance. My main point I’m trying to make writing this blog is that friendships are very important and require so much work, when honestly I feel like it shouldn’t take a lot butContinue

The beauty of Melanin

I’ve never been amazed by a black person’s beauty. I mean I’ve been black all my life and all I knew was that we had all different shades that would range from the lightest shades of tan and darkest shade of leather. I had family members in all shades but I never questioned why ,Continue

Are you more accepting or have more tolerance?

Just recently I had a much needed conversation on relationships and what to accept and not to accept. In that conversation I’ve noticed I’m more indirect vs being direct when it comes to expressing the way I feel. And I haven’t quite put my finger on the reason why. Wether it’s due to the personContinue

A letter to Dad on Farther’s Day

My letter to my dad in Heaven: At the age of 57, you were getting ready for retirement and you were probably ready to sit back and just relax. Instead you welcomed a baby girl who wasn’t of no relation to you. She was a two week old baby; a baby related to his wifeContinue

Are you an empath?

Are you the type of person who feels everything even when it shouldn’t even affect you personally. Movie scenes, death of strangers, music, and sweet family moments. All of those will make me drop a tear or more. Or something happens and you feel like this either happened before or you predicted that it wouldContinue

May- Mental Health Awareness Month

Happy 1st of May. Unfortunately, the importance of mental health wasn’t prioritized as a child and neither did I decide to make it a priority until maybe somewhere around mid-year 2017. I laughed when describing painful or traumatizing memories from my childhood and then from my teens until adulthood, just because that’s the only wayContinue

Let your energy guide you.

You ever find yourself in awe of your capabilities? The same capabilities that you figured was such a task that couldn’t be completed by you because you felt that you were to weak, emotional, scared, or ashamed. Have you ever felt emotion so strong that it scared you and you didn’t know how to ejectContinue

Is your happiness really a priority?

I came across a saying that stated that people will say that their goal in life is that they want to be happy. Which should be everyone’s dream because who doesn’t want to live a happy life? But it also asked that you be more specific in your quest for happiness? Happiness is just aContinue