Loving yourself selfishly

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone, I hope everyone has had a lovely day today and if not I hope and pray that it gets better. I’m sure I’m not the only person on this earth that’s single on Valentine’s Day, but how many can actually say that they’re okay with that status? I am but that’sContinue

Are you abusing social media or is social media abusing you?

I believe sometimes, we as people, abuse social media and I can be honest and say that I have abused social media myself. As soon as I would wake up, I would grab my phone and check Facebook or Instagram before even saying my prayers and I had to make a change and that IContinue

The beauty of Melanin

I’ve never been amazed by a black person’s beauty. I mean I’ve been black all my life and all I knew was that we had all different shades that would range from the lightest shades of tan and darkest shade of leather. I had family members in all shades but I never questioned why ,Continue

Are you more accepting or have more tolerance?

Just recently I had a much needed conversation on relationships and what to accept and not to accept. In that conversation I’ve noticed I’m more indirect vs being direct when it comes to expressing the way I feel. And I haven’t quite put my finger on the reason why. Wether it’s due to the personContinue

How do protect your energy?

What you allow to penetrate your mental capacity will either build you or break you. What you answer to will either define you or redirect you. What you speak will either shape you or contort you. Listen, act, and learn. Everyday is a day to make a change within yourself and others, you just haveContinue

It’s not me, it’s them!

Why must you play the victim! Why must people refuse to turn the mirror on themselves? Why must people point out your flaws, but cover their own? Must people pass judgement when their soul is not clean? Why must people use you until they have used every bit of you and turn on you whenContinue