Loving yourself selfishly

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone, I hope everyone has had a lovely day today and if not I hope and pray that it gets better. I’m sure I’m not the only person on this earth that’s single on Valentine’s Day, but how many can actually say that they’re okay with that status? I am but that’sContinueContinue reading “Loving yourself selfishly”

2020 Vision

I manifest, 2020 will be more challenging and life changing. Every thought, action, feeling, and smell will be imbedded in me. I will pick myself up when I fall, I will pray for myself more, and I won’t shy away from my own truths. I won’t make excuses for myself.I can’t second guess myself orContinueContinue reading “2020 Vision”

Are you an empath?

Are you the type of person who feels everything even when it shouldn’t even affect you personally. Movie scenes, death of strangers, music, and sweet family moments. All of those will make me drop a tear or more. Or something happens and you feel like this either happened before or you predicted that it wouldContinueContinue reading “Are you an empath?”

May- Mental Health Awareness Month

Happy 1st of May. Unfortunately, the importance of mental health wasn’t prioritized as a child and neither did I decide to make it a priority until maybe somewhere around mid-year 2017. I laughed when describing painful or traumatizing memories from my childhood and then from my teens until adulthood, just because that’s the only wayContinueContinue reading “May- Mental Health Awareness Month”

Let your energy guide you.

You ever find yourself in awe of your capabilities? The same capabilities that you figured was such a task that couldn’t be completed by you because you felt that you were to weak, emotional, scared, or ashamed. Have you ever felt emotion so strong that it scared you and you didn’t know how to ejectContinueContinue reading “Let your energy guide you.”

Is your happiness really a priority?

I came across a saying that stated that people will say that their goal in life is that they want to be happy. Which should be everyone’s dream because who doesn’t want to live a happy life? But it also asked that you be more specific in your quest for happiness? Happiness is just aContinueContinue reading “Is your happiness really a priority?”

What’s your self care routine?

Self care is a necessity and sometimes it can be placed on the back burner because of the demands of family, friends, work, goals, and just life in general. I always tell myself, “if I don’t make myself happy then how can I bring happiness to others?” And sometimes self care can be confused withContinueContinue reading “What’s your self care routine?”

It’s not me, it’s them!

Why must you play the victim! Why must people refuse to turn the mirror on themselves? Why must people point out your flaws, but cover their own? Must people pass judgement when their soul is not clean? Why must people use you until they have used every bit of you and turn on you whenContinueContinue reading “It’s not me, it’s them!”

Signs you might be a loner

Do you ever get the feeling that you’re getting the short end of the stick? Like you’re playing a game of kick ball and it’s time to teams and you’re the last one standing and no one really wants to pick you, but they have to because they can’t leave you there, can they? AndContinueContinue reading “Signs you might be a loner”