Are you abusing social media or is social media abusing you?

I believe sometimes, we as people, abuse social media and I can be honest and say that I have abused social media myself. As soon as I would wake up, I would grab my phone and check Facebook or Instagram before even saying my prayers and I had to make a change and that IContinue

Happy World Introvert Day

Hello my fellow introvert, One of a kind. Each introvert is different. I’m a Virgo introvert *pause* I can’t even explain it myself, but I make do with my unique quiet but loud personality. I enjoy peace and quiet, but I enjoy noise. I prefer to be home alone, earphones in, very loud by theContinue

2020 vision

To anyone who’s reading this. Please find your peace. Find your balance. Don’t take no for an answer. Don’t be mute. Don’t hesitate. Take all that you deserve. Take long naps, run faster, work harder, love harder, listen more, and speak less. Teach yourself before trying to teach others and learn from yourself, as wellContinue

2020 Vision

I manifest, 2020 will be more challenging and life changing. Every thought, action, feeling, and smell will be imbedded in me. I will pick myself up when I fall, I will pray for myself more, and I won’t shy away from my own truths. I won’t make excuses for myself.I can’t second guess myself orContinue

The beauty of Melanin

I’ve never been amazed by a black person’s beauty. I mean I’ve been black all my life and all I knew was that we had all different shades that would range from the lightest shades of tan and darkest shade of leather. I had family members in all shades but I never questioned why ,Continue

Are you more accepting or have more tolerance?

Just recently I had a much needed conversation on relationships and what to accept and not to accept. In that conversation I’ve noticed I’m more indirect vs being direct when it comes to expressing the way I feel. And I haven’t quite put my finger on the reason why. Wether it’s due to the personContinue

How do protect your energy?

What you allow to penetrate your mental capacity will either build you or break you. What you answer to will either define you or redirect you. What you speak will either shape you or contort you. Listen, act, and learn. Everyday is a day to make a change within yourself and others, you just haveContinue

Are you an empath?

Are you the type of person who feels everything even when it shouldn’t even affect you personally. Movie scenes, death of strangers, music, and sweet family moments. All of those will make me drop a tear or more. Or something happens and you feel like this either happened before or you predicted that it wouldContinue

Summer fund or summer fun?

Have any financial goals for the summer? For some of us, summertime means vacationing, long days at the beach, and lounging at the pool. For some, there’s summer school, college, and driving tests. And then there’s the workers, volunteers, and savers. I’m a little bit of everything. We all don’t have the luxury of relaxingContinue

May- Mental Health Awareness Month

Happy 1st of May. Unfortunately, the importance of mental health wasn’t prioritized as a child and neither did I decide to make it a priority until maybe somewhere around mid-year 2017. I laughed when describing painful or traumatizing memories from my childhood and then from my teens until adulthood, just because that’s the only wayContinue