Message🚨: Relationships/friendships require more than 60/40

All friendships and relationships start off different but I believe they all require the same thing to last, which is equality and balance. My main point I’m trying to make writing this blog is that friendships are very important and require so much work, when honestly I feel like it shouldn’t take a lot butContinue

2020 vision

To anyone who’s reading this. Please find your peace. Find your balance. Don’t take no for an answer. Don’t be mute. Don’t hesitate. Take all that you deserve. Take long naps, run faster, work harder, love harder, listen more, and speak less. Teach yourself before trying to teach others and learn from yourself, as wellContinue

There’s givers, takers, and combination of both: Who are you?

I’m a giver. I give more of myself than I should. Even when I tell myself to not care, distance myself, or even take a self care day and just remain in silence, but for some reason I falter every time. I want to provide comfort, I want to pray over you, I want toContinue

2020 Vision

I manifest, 2020 will be more challenging and life changing. Every thought, action, feeling, and smell will be imbedded in me. I will pick myself up when I fall, I will pray for myself more, and I won’t shy away from my own truths. I won’t make excuses for myself.I can’t second guess myself orContinue

The beauty of Melanin

I’ve never been amazed by a black person’s beauty. I mean I’ve been black all my life and all I knew was that we had all different shades that would range from the lightest shades of tan and darkest shade of leather. I had family members in all shades but I never questioned why ,Continue

May- Mental Health Awareness Month

Happy 1st of May. Unfortunately, the importance of mental health wasn’t prioritized as a child and neither did I decide to make it a priority until maybe somewhere around mid-year 2017. I laughed when describing painful or traumatizing memories from my childhood and then from my teens until adulthood, just because that’s the only wayContinue

Let your energy guide you.

You ever find yourself in awe of your capabilities? The same capabilities that you figured was such a task that couldn’t be completed by you because you felt that you were to weak, emotional, scared, or ashamed. Have you ever felt emotion so strong that it scared you and you didn’t know how to ejectContinue

Is your happiness really a priority?

I came across a saying that stated that people will say that their goal in life is that they want to be happy. Which should be everyone’s dream because who doesn’t want to live a happy life? But it also asked that you be more specific in your quest for happiness? Happiness is just aContinue

Expressing emotions

Has anyone ever start having these random thoughts about a certain person? Something has changed within the relationship where you now pay close attention to their words and actions. Something could have happened that made you question their trust and loyalty and now you can’t help but to wait for the other shoe to drop.Continue

What’s your self care routine?

Self care is a necessity and sometimes it can be placed on the back burner because of the demands of family, friends, work, goals, and just life in general. I always tell myself, “if I don’t make myself happy then how can I bring happiness to others?” And sometimes self care can be confused withContinue